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"Parents based in North London is looking for an exceptional and skilled instructor to support their youngest child on his early path to turning into an English gentleman."

Upon seeing this listing, you might easily overlook the wording "initial stages" as just a turn of phrase.

Yet, it could be the most important part of this unusual position posting, as it attempts to find a teacher for a one-year-old.

Numerous of responses have since been sent in since the anonymous family published their request for the £180,000 per year tutor, who has to be "an exceptional individual".

During the past few weeks, the listing has attracted attention throughout the news, with numerous questioning why?

Innovative Idea

Adam Caller, CEO and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is helping the family in their quest, stated that despite first doubt, he found the concept "visionary", and "innovative".

When he consulted the family, he said they appreciated the unusual character of their demand, and how immature their son is.

However, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had held off until their elder sibling was five, and by that age "cultural conditioning had already become established".

What precisely does the family refer to by "cultural bias"?

It's "all-encompassing", Adam responded. "The way you eat, the manner you speak".

He explained the elder child had absorbed "extremely delicate, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had adopted their cultural ways. The family explained to him they hoped to prevent history to happen again with their new baby.

The plan: To hire a UK tutor, who must speak with Received Pronunciation, to influence the baby from day one.

Natural Absorption

"A great deal of the learning at the outset here is kind of absorbed naturally," explained the expert.

It's by means of this osmosis that the family are expecting the child will pick up the British traits they aim to impart.

The consultant noted the tutor had to be somebody who attended "the right kinds of schools – the same kinds of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The instructor must be the appropriate candidate, they'll be carrying out things they aren't even aware they're doing, effortlessly," he commented.

Cost Not Relevant

The family explained to the expert the successful candidate should preferably also have knowledge of or enthusiasm in equestrian activities, alpine skiing, creative fields and musical activities so as to influence the child in a diverse set of passions.

Additionally though, he explained the family hoped the tutor to sign up the child on a range of lessons so the child would be "pony-riding and learning an tool by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's minds, helping their son become a "British gentleman" will bring about achievement and create opportunities.

"For all the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's definitely a status symbol," he notes.

But, in spite of all this instruction in "English culture", would the child pick up what is termed cultural bias from the globally influenced family he resides with regardless?

"Yes", said the CEO. "The parents know this could fail, but they've just taken the attitude of, 'we should try and let's go as early as we can', because the expense of it is irrelevant," he said.

Impractical

A number of in the education sector who express those doubts.

Another CEO, CEO and founder of an educational organization, who supplies individual instructors, stated that "the process of becoming bicultural, or actually, becoming oneself, is something that must be grown into, not engineered."

He explained that he had moved from the Far East to the Britain at the age of childhood, and had been brought up understanding and embodying both cultures. He went on to learn at a prestigious UK institution.

"The concept that a single person can serve as a living vessel of Britishness, someone who can possibly transfer the attributes of a UK sophisticate onto a one-year-old child, appears idealistic and unrealistic," he stated.

"Based on my background, having a quintessentially British tutor from babyhood will does not necessarily produce the outcome they desire.

"I did not have such a tutor, and nevertheless I have been fortunate enough to experience many of the situations they desire for their son."

He stated: "The fact is, personal identity should not be imposed from the outside influences; it must be chosen, and it must originate internally."

Buying Britishness

Of course, English culture is something the expert hopes can be educated – and sold.

"I think the reality that the international society views us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating